Day at the Beach (#11)

Well, progress on my List has been fabulous but for item #1 — updating my blog!  Thanks to steady work, a move to a new home, and several very busy weekends, I’ve been able to accomplish several of my goals but failed miserably at writing about them.  Which is why I find myself today blogging about a day at the beach in August…

Ms. UVA gave me a fabulous excuse to knock this one off of my list, as she requested a beach excursion for her birthday.  We wanted something that was close enough for a day trip, so that excluded several of the more well-known beaches that are about three hours from DC.  Instead, we found Breezy Point Beach, a small public beach in Calvert County, MD, along the Chesapeake Bay.  It’s an easy hour-long drive from the city.  We rounded up a handful of pals and packed some delicious beach snacks, including dinosaur-shaped sandwiches and Utz Crab Chips!  The weather that day was perfect, and while the beach was no tropical paradise, we did end up having a relaxing and fun afternoon.  We finished off the day with dinner at Abner’s Crab House, where BANJ and I polished off a dozen crabs, one of us perhaps less squeamishly than the other, and LL practiced being VERY patient.

Here are some of my favorite pictures from the trip.  You can click through the gallery to see larger images.

Coming Soon…

I’ve been so busy crossing things off my list lately that I’ve fallen behind on item #1 — updating my blog!  Here are some entries you can look forward to in the near future:

  • #11 — Spend a day at the beach:  Ms. UVA celebrated her 26th birthday with a day at Breezy Point Beach on the Chesapeake Bay, where I had a perfect beach day with some great pals.
  • #19 — Spend a weekend in 5 states outside of the DMV*:  I traveled to Atlanta over Labor Day weekend with my girlfriend to meet the family (!!!) and celebrate her sister’s wedding.
  • #7 — Read at least 12 books:  I absolutely devoured Sara Gruen’s bestseller Water for Elephants, an engrossing historical fiction about life inside a circus.
  • #16 — Prepare 40 new recipes:  Speaking of devouring, I was really pleased with a couple new recipes I tried from Cooking Light magazine.

And there’s so much coming up on the horizon!  Next weekend, I will engage in not just one, but two, fall seasonal activities, participate in the AIDS Walk (It’s not too late to support my team!), and try out a new restaurant.  The weekend after that will be a second trip with my sweetie, this time to Charlotte, NC.  The best news of all relates to my progress on some more serious life goals.  Today I signed my second three-month contract for the law firm where I am a staff attorney!  This does not qualify as the permanent employment I hope to find this year, but it pays well enough that I can move forward with goal #4 — moving out of Casa B-G and into an apartment with Ms. UVA! 

Anyway, since I am busy crossing things off my list, working long hours at the firm, and apartment hunting, updating the blog will have to be a lower priority.  But I’m going to make an effort to do one post every two days until I have caught up with all my adventures.  That’s a promise!

*We all know that DMV = DC-Maryland-Virginia here, right?  Because Lord knows I have no intention of whiling away five weekends by registering my car in various states…

HELP!

I know, I know… it’s been far too long since my last post.  The good news is that I have been busy crossing accomplishments off of my list.  The better news is that I’ll be sharing about them soon here on the blog.  So thanks to those who have been checking back for updates; I will try to do a better job of keeping up in the future!

Before I update you on my latest adventures, however, I need to make an urgent plea for your assistance.  Item #15 on The List — forming a team for the AIDS Walk in DC — snuck up on me a bit too quickly.  The walk is on October 2, so I just have a little over a week to meet my goals of 10 walkers and $500 raised!

courtesy of AIDS Walk Washington

AIDS Walk Washington is a fundraising 5K that benefits HIV/AIDS programs at the Whitman-Walker Clinic, a non-profit, community-based health care provider with expertise in LGBT and HIV care.  The WWC fills a vital role in a city where 1 in 20 adult residents is HIV-positive.

Please consider supporting this wonderful organization, either by walking the 5K with me (beginning at 9:15 a.m. on Saturday, Oct. 2) or financially sponsoring our team.  To join the team and walk in the 5K , please go to the Operation 27 team page, click the “Join Our Team” link, and follow the prompts.  It costs just $25 to register (and you’ll get a free t-shirt!), or you can pay a little extra to be a “sleep walker” if you’re not a morning person.  If you’d like to track our progress or make a donation, please check out our donation page.  And, of course, if you have any questions, feel free to comment on this post.

Thanks for your enthusiastic support!

Eat, Pray, Love (#7)

I used to be an avid reader throughout high school and college, but then law school happened.  Law school pretty much goes like this: buy five or more ten-pound tomes, read them, make an outline of each of these books, memorize it, take an exam that determines your entire grade, repeat.  Pleasure reading went out the door, and by the time I had my JD in hand, I was ready for a break from all reading.  I’ve finally begun to feel the itch to pick up a good book again, though, and so one of my goals for this year is to read at least twelve books.  (I welcome recommendations from the peanut gallery!)

The first book I read was Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert.  It’s a travel memoir about the author’s journey towards healing and self-revelation after a divorce and painful break-up.  She travels first to Italy to learn about the pursuit of pleasure, then to an ashram in India to learn about the pursuit of God, and finally to Bali to learn about how to hold these values in balance.  I think I am probably the Last Person on Earth to get around to reading her wildly popular bestseller.  To be honest, it wasn’t one that I necessarily planned to read this year, but my girlfriend is a huge fan and wanted us to see the movie adaptation on opening night, and I figured I ought to read the book before I saw the film.

I appreciated this book on many levels.  The parallels between Gilbert’s life and my own were of course not lost on me, and I am very glad that I ended up reading her book when I did.  My experiences over the past year rendered me better able to understand what she described as the “massive lifestyle upheaval” that is divorce and to sympathize with her painful journey towards healing.  I found the book a bit too navel-gazy at times (says the girl who’s writing a blog about her life…), but she did have some thought-provoking insights on relaxation (“Americans don’t really know how to do nothing.”), contentment (“Happiness is the consequence of personal effort.”), and spirituality (“God dwells within you, as you.”).  As somebody who tends to focus on the social gospel, i.e. how to live out my faith in community and through service, I benefited from Gilbert’s recounting of her time in the ashram.  It reminded me of the importance of being still and listening for God.

Geek confession: It was a small detail on the very first page that jumped out at me the most.  Gilbert explains in the introduction that the book is split into 108 chapters, a number considered auspicious because it is a three-digit multiple of three whose digits add up to nine, also a multiple of three.  The number three represents supreme balance (think: Holy Trinity).  Hindu or Buddhist japa malas (a meditation tool) typically contain 108 beads, and this is where Gilbert found her inspiration for the structure of her book. However, the number 108 resonated with me for a different, nerdier reason.  I am a huge fan of LOST, and any good LOSTie knows that The Numbers add up to 108.  Given the spiritual currents running throughout the series, I’m sure that is not a coincidence.  And when you think about it, Gilbert’s journey was not unlike the castaways’.  She began her travels lost, feeling that there must be more to life.  Through found community along the way, she learned to forgive herself/others and ultimately connected with God/The Source.  Except LOST had a smoke monster and all sorts of other awesomeness.  Man oh man, I miss that show!

This interesting factoid also reminded me of a birthday reminder I received from a mathematician friend of mine that this year I am three cubed.  Twenty-seven is three multiplied together three times, and its digits also add up to nine.  So I am hopeful that this will be a most auspicious year, indeed!

Screen on the Green (#13)

Sometimes I forget how fortunate I am to live in (well, very near) our nation’s capital.  I take for granted my clear view of the Capitol on my commute into town.  I sometimes see tourists taking pictures on the Metro, another leg of my commute and an excursion that has become mundane for me.  I attend a church in Chinatown, and after Sunday services, I could easily walk from there to any of the free museums on the Mall or take a stroll past the White House, yet I rarely do.  A partial impetus for making my list this year is the hope that it will inspire me to take full advantage of the great resources here in DC.

One unique opportunity here in the summer is Screen on the Green.  On four Monday evenings in July and August, classic films are projected on a giant movie screen on the National Mall.  Moviegoers arrive after work with picnic blankets, food, and sneaky adult beverages to socialize until sundown, when the movie begins.  I’ve been in past years, most memorably with two dear friends from law school who supplied some excellent mulled wine, and this summer I managed to catch two films.  The week before my birthday, I saw 12 Angry Men with Freckles and Ms. UVA, and I returned with Ms. UVA the following week (after my birthday) to watch Bonnie and Clyde.  Both films were entertaining, the company was great, and the scenery could not be beat!

Summer Seasonal Excursion (#27)

Even the best laid plans sometimes go awry, and such was the case with my 27th birthday celebration.  My best friend (Ms. UVA) and girlfriend (Freckles) planned out the perfect summer escape: a tubing adventure on the Shenandoah River at Harpers Ferry.  They mapped out the trip, planned a delicious picnic, and invited several friends to join us.  Unfortunately, as is a common peril of summer birthdays, all my other friends already had travel plans or work obligations, so it ended up being just the three of us.  We got a bit of a late start that afternoon and hit some traffic on the way there, so we rolled up to the rafting company shortly before 4 pm.  Just in time for the staff to tell us that the last shuttle to the river had just left for the day.  Oops.

Thanks to Freckles’ uncanny ability to make new friends, we got directions through the thriving metropolis of Bolivar, WV (population: allegedly 300) to a public park on the bank of the Shenandoah.  At least I think it was public — we had to walk past a barrier and cross some train tracks to get there.  The beautiful scenery certainly made it worth the trek!

I gayed it up with my pink bandana...

We waded out to a large rock in the river and had a lovely picnic lunch that included all the essential tubing treats: sandwiches, watermelon, Doritos, Oreos, and the most important ingredient, Yuengling in a Can.  Those of you who know me know how I looove that can taste!  After some obligatory food coma relaxation time (if you closed your eyes, it was almost like floating down the river in an inner tube!), Ms. UVA and I braved the gigantic rapids for a swim before we headed home.  All in all, a wonderful birthday!

I’m going to count this as the summer seasonal item for Goal #27 (do something seasonally appropriate for each season), but I’m still hoping I might fit in a successful tubing adventure by this time next year!

Me and my BFF

Me and my sweetie

Hello & Welcome

I recently turned 27, and this is my first foray into blogging.

Why blog now?  I’ve thought about starting a blog several times in the past, but I wasn’t sure what I would write about or how I felt about writing for an audience.  But one thing I’ve learned in the past year is to care less about what other people think, so that helped quell any concerns about a public blog.  Also, as an attorney, any writing I get to do these days tends to be highly technical and, frankly, boring.  I’m attracted to the idea of returning to a more creative or journalistic approach to writing.  And, thanks to my friend over at 101 Achievements, I finally found the perfect idea for a blog theme!

What is this blog about?  Operation 27 is a chronicle of my efforts to live year 27 to the fullest.  I’ve made a list of 27 goals/achievements to accomplish before I turn 28 — you can see the complete list here.  My goals range from imperatives (e.g. find a permanent job) to good deeds (e.g. volunteer 75+ hours) to self-improvement (e.g. lose at least 10 lbs), as well as several just-for-fun endeavors (e.g. spend at least one day at the beach).

Don’t worry — this isn’t growing out of some quarter-life-crisis angst.  I’m not one to despair at my age, and 27 is certainly not old.  (Although I must admit that the realization that I am rapidly approaching my ten-year reunion from high school graduation was a *tad* disconcerting…)  But I do think a more proactive approach to my health, happiness, and personal success is in order.  Last year was particularly demoralizing; eight months ago, I found myself unemployed, divorced (not legally, but in every other sense of the word), and relying on some very generous friends for housing.  I am in a much better place today, at least in terms of morale, yet still in the process of building a new life for myself.  I want to make sure that this year is productive, successful, and filled with fun new adventures.  I made this list and blog because, despite being a Type A overachiever in my educational/professional life, I’ve rarely been good at setting and keeping resolutions for my personal life.  Given that one of the great joys of my life is crossing things off of to-do lists, I thought writing down some goals (and holding myself publicly accountable on this blog) might give me the extra nudge I need to make sure that this year is everything I want it to be. 

Again, please stop by this page to check out The List.  Thanks for reading my blog, and I hope you enjoy following me in my many adventures!


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